Posted on December 06, 2024

Friendship

What is the meaning and effect of friendship to you?

In one of my relationships at the end of it I was told that all our friends where mine.

I ask myself why was that and also asked that person what their definition of a friend was?

There was no answer not sure if they could not tell me or if it was the fact friends are not people you just hang with, though that is true but there is more!

Definition of friendship

Friendship is a bond between people who share mutual affection, trust, and support. It's built on a foundation of respect, loyalty, and honesty, where friends can rely on each other through good times and bad. Friends often share common interests, values, and experiences, and they provide emotional support, companionship, and understanding.

In essence, a true friendship enriches your life, offering a sense of belonging and enhancing your overall well-being. How has friendship played a role in your life?

That being defined makes it easy to determine if you’re a friend or not?

Time to fix your shit if you only take and not support and offer your time and energy to others as a friend not to judge but leaned an ear with out a reply is sometimes the best thing to do.

How many times have we Said you know what you need to do?

You don’t know what they need only they do because their in it and it is effecting them!

We all have done it like when people grieve over a lost love one, I’ve heard its ok and you’ll get over it? REALLY?

It’s time to move on and stop grieving? REALLY?

Well how do we think we know what when and how the grief will pass or not be as hard as the presence or if it will pass at all ever?

Sometimes better to give a hug and understand that person is hurting and missing that spot that was filled with that persons love and friendship?

In conclusion of friends and the meaning of Friendship we should evaluate our part in peoples lives we call Friends.

So the friends in our lifes as a couple really wasn’t a friendship of us both but a friend as an individual who offered support as well as help in a situation where you could be of assistance.

Look around you and define the essence of folks your surrounded by, you’ll be amazed at what you see when you pay attention.

A friend had lost her husband and the people in her life said they’ll be there for her if she needed anything? Well it’s been years and I’m still waiting on those people to show up for her, REALLY?

Have you seen this?

Have you done this?

This is hard sometimes Harder Than you know because when you offer this to a friend they do count on it!

Lets put friendship in order to help make a difference in others lives and the world in which we live!

Cosmo Easterly a friend to many, God is good.